As you might imagine, there are themes that come up repeatedly with bucket list questions I get via email, and on the topbucketlistadventures.com page, and as comments on various posts on the site itself. The most common theme, bar none, is this: “can you help me with my Italy itinerary?” The post with the most comments is my perfect 2-week Italy bucket list itinerary.
The question comes in many forms, from the “here’s what I think I’m going to do, what do you think of my plan?” to the “I have no idea where to start, can you point me in the right direction?” and everywhere in between. I answer every single one of them, and I love being able to help people plan their bucket list trips. I am, however, more of the “teach a man to fish” kind of person, so rather than spoon-feed itineraries to anyone I tend to offer suggestions that still require the questioner to make decisions. (I can’t help it, both my parents were teachers.)
Here’s the thing – I’ve realized that I’m giving out the same advice in terms of things to think about when creating the perfect Italy bucket list itinerary, so I decided it was about time I put those things in one article. I will say that these are my tips for creating the perfect Italy bucket list itinerary, and someone else is likely to have different tips. But since I have no plans of becoming a travel agent and booking everything for you, this is exactly the stuff I take into consideration when I’m planning my own trips – to Italy or anywhere else, for that matter.
How to Create the Perfect Italy Itinerary
Get a Good Map of Italy
It may seem like a weird first step to get a good Italy map, especially if you’re not planning to drive anywhere in the country, but it’s key to the rest of the itinerary planning. The map doesn’t need to be big enough to carpet your living room or have every back road identified or anything, it just needs to have enough detail to show you city names beyond the big three, so you’ll have a point of reference for the places you want to go.
Make a List of the Bucket List Places You Want to Go
This isn’t the time to be realistic, this is the time to write down all the bucket list places you really want to visit on this trip. I mean, you can be a little realistic, because you’d get carpal tunnel if you wrote down the name of every single city and village in Italy because you wanted to get there “someday.” You probably already have an idea of a top five or top 10 bucket list places you’re really aching to see sooner rather than later, and you know how much time you have for your vacation. Don’t worry about getting it exactly right at this point in terms of number of places vs. amount of vacation time – that’s a later step.
Locate the Places You Want to Visit on Your Map
Use pins, crayons, magic markers, post-it flags – whatever you like – just identify and mark all the places that are on your bucket list on your Italy map, so you can see exactly where they are in the country. This is why getting a good map is so important. It’s not enough to know that Naples is in “southern Italy” and Turin is in “northern Italy.” You have to know where in northern or southern Italy these places are. I recommend getting a dedicated map for your wall (like the National Geographic: Italy Classic Wall Map) that you can visually see all your potential bucket list destinations.
This is critical for two reasons. First, it gives you an instant sense of what order to go in – moving geographically in one direction as much as possible cuts down on the amount of time you’ll spend in transit, while backtracking is (as I see it) just a waste of precious vacation time. (I even recommend getting an open-jaw ticket whenever possible to eliminate backtracking.) Second, it makes any cutting back on your destination wish list easier because you can see immediately what’s realistic and what’s simply not.
Look Up Transportation Times
This is the part where I pay the Trenitalia site a visit and start typing in city names. If you think you’ll be renting a car in Italy and driving around, however, this is the part where you’d pay the Via Michelin site a visit instead. Obviously, both of these sites are giving you estimates for journey times, but it’s at least something to use as a reference point.
Why am I so insistent about this even before you’ve narrowed down your itinerary choices? Because I want you to know how long you’ll spend on each travel day in transit. I want you to keep in mind that just saying “on this day we’ll go from Rome to Venice” doesn’t mean the trip is over in a nanosecond, leaving you the whole day to explore Venice before jetting off to Verona that evening. Getting from place to place takes time, not to mention the time spent checking out of one hotel and into another on the other end. Skipping this step may mean that you end up with only a half-day in Venice when, in your head, you thought you’d have a whole day. And that would suck.
Plot Out a Calendar for Your Bucket List Trip
Now that you know where your desired bucket list stops are and how long it takes to get from point to point, bring in your actual allotted vacation time from stage left. I like to do this calendar-style, with big boxes for each day so I can see my trip progress; other people I know just make a list of the dates they’ll be traveling down one side of a piece of paper. Either way, start filling in each day with where you’ll be that day, and on any travel days make sure to note how long it takes to get from Point A to Point B (as per your research in step 4 above) so you’ll have a very good idea of just how long you’ll get to spend in each of the places you’re stopping in.
Start Cutting Back
When you run out of days, as you are bound to do, then you’ll need to start cutting back your bucket list (or adding vacation days, which I highly recommend, but which most people can’t do). How do you cut back your bucket list? It’s difficult, I can totally sympathize – and it has to be done. Here are some ways to make it easier:
- Look at the Map – You have a week in Italy and you want to see Venice, Florence, Siena, Rome, Naples, Palermo, and Bari? Yeah, that’s not going to happen. And before you ask why it’s not going to happen, look at your Italy map and see how far apart all those cities are. Having that map – and knowing travel times – makes it much easier to make realistic choices when your wish list of Italian cities to visit is longer than you have time to see.
- Eliminate Bucket List Duplicates – Okay, this isn’t to say that there are carbon copy cities in Italy, or that “if you’ve seen one medieval town, you’ve seen ’em all,” but sometimes you can cut a place off your list because it offers a similar flavor to another place you’re already going. For instance, the Cinque Terre and Amalfi Coast are both clusters of coastal communities, and while they’re notably different, visiting one and skipping the other is an easy way to get a taste of coastal Italy without trying to cram too much into your trip.
- Consider the Weather – Maybe you’ve always wanted to see Venice, but you can’t stand the cold and your trip is planned for January. Maybe you’d love to go to Sicily to see the Greek ruins there, but your trip is in July and you’re not a sun worshipper. Sure, people visit Venice in January and Sicily in July, but there are weather extremes in some cases that might make your decision-making process easier.
- Draw Names from a Hat – This is actually the crazy bucket list decision-making trick, and it always annoys me when it works, but it does. If you feel like you simply can’t pick between a few bucket list places, put those options in a hat (or a bowl, I’m not picky). Draw one. If you’re really excited, that’s the bucket list choice you subconsciously wanted to make in the first place. If you’re not really excited, keep drawing until you are.
- Plan a Second Bucket List Trip – Travel is a luxury, and I won’t pretend that everyone has the option of visiting Italy (or any place) multiple times. And if you’re a budding Italophile you will, in all likelihood, go back. On this trip, then, visit the bucket list places that you’d be most unhappy about missing – and then start planning your next bucket list trip with the places on the next tier down. (I usually dive into planning my next trip on the plane ride home.)
Now You Can Start Booking Stuff
You might be more comfortable not booking accommodation before your trip, and if that’s the case that’s fine – but if you’re like me and you like knowing where you’ll be sleeping (especially on a shorter trip when you’d rather not spend time looking for a place to stay), this is now the part of the trip-planning process where you can start booking things.
I know it’s tempting to start looking at pretty hotel pictures as soon as you make your bucket list of places you want to go, but I hate it when I find an adorable B&B I absolutely must stay in and then it turns out I cross that bucket list destination off my list in the end. Once you’ve got your trip sorted out and know where you’re going and how long you’re staying, then it’s time to start looking for places to stay.
And after all of that, if you still want to ask me a question, feel free. Just know that I will still attempt to teach you to fish.